“Being a normal teenager means you have to be in a
relationship with someone special.” That common saying may contain some truth,
but having someone special related to a boyfriend or girlfriend is not the
factor to be a normal teenager. Despite the good of being in a relationship,
being single as a teenager gives more impact.
Firstly, teenagers feel lonely in boredom. Having
someone special makes you ignore how lonely you are in boredom. You can contact
your special one and share any topic anytime as agreed before. If your special
one is not there for you anytime, he must be out there thinking of you, feeling
sorry, and trying to create a good time anyway. On the other hand, being single
may cause you feel lonely in boredom often, because you don’t know what to do yourself.
But, you can actually defeat your loneliness in boredom by communicating with
your buddies, even making a good time with your family, or just doing your
hobby, assignments, and other things meaningful.
Secondly, having someone special can make you feel
special or lucky. Unlike being single, you may feel unlucky because of not
being recognized as in love with your crush, teenagers tend to rush about
recognition. You may also think that you are not important enough and look
imperfect to someone. Those nasty thoughts you made yourself won’t lead you to
maturity. Being single doesn’t mean you are not special because there have been
those loving you anyways, good friends and family, even mighty God.
Thirdly, you will learn to treat someone well. There
are problems you may face in a relationship. That’s why you and your special
one will always try to keep your relationship. You both try to trust each
other, be patient, or even be honest about your feelings and opinions.
Nevertheless, you can also learn about trust, patience, and honesty in your
family, groups, or even communities.
Lastly, your special one could be your motivation.
Laziness may cause failure at achieving goals. No worries because you special
one would support you by forcing you to work hard, cheering you up, and giving
you any present making you in a good mood. Yet, you want to please your
parents, don’t you? No matter how your parents’ support for you is, you should
always be motivated to be a good child for them.
To put the whole things in a nutshell, being a normal
teenager doesn’t always mean having to have someone special. There are other things
more meaningful to be done as a teenager, especially pleasing God by pleasing
your parents. In many ways, you can kill your loneliness and realize how
special you are.
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